Perfect Hair for Weddings and Summer Parties

When dressing for special events and parties, remember that your hair is as much of an accessory as your belt and shoes – and probably more important - in either bringing together – or confusing -- your overall look. Your hair should always be consistent with and complement the essence of what you are wearing. Too often, I see women approach their hairstyle entirely separate and apart from what they’re wearing. The absolute worst thing you can do – whether going out to a club or something more formal – is to throw a big jaw clip in your pulled back or piled up hair! This is NEVER OK! Your hair should always elevate your look, not detract from it. All a sloppy jaw clip says is “I spent a lot of time finding the perfect dress, but couldn’t care less about my hair . . .”














Of course, different occasions call for different looks. Casual summer parties may call for easy, relaxed hair, while something more structured and formal might be appropriate for a black tie event or wedding. For instance, the classic, more formal French twist almost never looks quite right with a summery garden party dress and sandals. However, it becomes stylish and effortless when paired with a fabulous evening gown for a dressy gala.


However, even hair for formal occasions like weddings or black-tie events doesn’t have to be uptight and traditional anymore. Try a messy upstyle or add some extra wave for a looser, less “done” look. The more formal the event, though, the more I recommend having your hair done professionally. For in-salon styles, always let your stylist know what kind of event you’re attending and what you are wearing, so he or she can give you just the right look.

For more casual events where you plan on doing your own hair, keep it simple. Pulling your hair back into a low, soft and loose bun (chignon) may be a good choice. For straight, longer hair, a small braid in the front bang area pinned back with simple bobby pin or festive hairpin can also be a good look (think Jennifer Aniston).



You could also try a messy (back combed) pony at either mid-head or nape, with lots of volume in the crown, tight on the sides, and a low side-swept bang. Browse through fashion magazines (and even celebrity rags!) for ideas you like and can easily imitate at home.


Just remember, it’s about the whole look. Match your hairstyle with the occasion, don’t compete with your wardrobe, and have fun with the process. Your hair is your most important accessory, so make sure it looks as fabulous as you feel!